Kylie Kelce lives by these words of wisdom.

When it comes to her relationship with husband Jason Kelce, the former NFL player’s wife said that the best marriage advice she’s ever received is to “always date your spouse.”

“At the end of the day, I truly believe you chose your spouse,” Kylie explained on an April 10 episode of her Not Gonna Lie podcast. “You chose to love them, you chose to let them love you. And you chose to build a life together.”

As part of their shared journey, the couple became parents to daughters Wyatt, 5, Elliotte, 4, Bennett, 2, and baby Finnley “Finn” Anne, whom they welcomed March 30. While Kylie made it clear that she loves them “as much as I could ever love another being,” she also added that she didn’t necessarily choose them, adding, “I got what I got with my kids.”

And the same sentiment applies to the rest of her family.