Even so, the 44-year-old—who split from the Magic Mike star after nine years of marriage—has been embracing starting a new chapter with her Rookie costar.  

“Fresh starts, I’ve realized, don’t wait for calendars or big proclamations,” she wrote in a January essay for InStyle. “They happen in the quiet choices: forgiving yourself, showing up again, trusting the process even when it feels hopeless.”

“I am so grateful for my family, the love and presence of my partner, Steve, and the adventures we will have this year,” she continued. “I see some travel, lots of family laughs, and, most importantly, maybe a wedding finally!”

For more of Jenna and Steve’s sweet romance, keep reading.